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Summary: i met the author -- she's as funny as this book
Review: Grace in the First Person is equal parts funny and inspirational. A hard mix to do well, but this author does. I liked it so much I bought 4 extra copies to give away to friends I deem "worthy!" Hope she writes more of this stuff.
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Summary: Gracefully Written
Review: I have to say that Lee Knapp writes with such honesty and wit that the book was hard to put down. The way she presents her life is both inspirational and heartfelt. She has a way of seeing the world with such humor and a certain consciousness of her situation, it is amazing to watch it unfold. Her words made me both laugh and cry within the same story on several occasions. I believe that anyone can relate to her life. Her perception of parenting, faith, and relationships is one that is truly indicative of Lee Knapp's personality. I wish she were my mother! Oh wait, she is.
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Summary: great for Holiday Giving
Review: I keep buying this darling book to give to friends. It's a perfect gift for the holidays. We can all relate to Lee's personal stories.
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Summary: great for Holiday Giving
Review: I keep buying this darling book to give to friends. It's a perfect gift for the holidays. We can all relate to Lee's personal stories.
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Summary: i met the author -- she's as funny as this book
Review: Lee's writing has that "every woman" quality. Just like Bruce Springsteen has the ability to sing just to me in a crowd of 60 thousand, Lee's writing gives me goosebumps as it seems like she somehow found my life's collection of journals. This book is a feel good, feel real gem. I love her honesty and genuine appreciation for all the little things in life that make up our one big experience here on earth.
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Summary: A quick read filled with well-written prose and great lines
Review: Reading the very first line of Lee Knapp's introduction to her book of essays, I had the feeling I was really going to like this book. Half way into the first chapter, I knew I would, especially when I realized I was smiling as I read.Maybe I was smiling because Lee Knapp is so much like me --- we're both recovering fundamentalists, mothers of boys, as well as sharing similar chaotic childhoods --- and yet, she's so much better at articulating what I'm thinking and feeling than I am. Or perhaps, she's just more honest about her struggles to fulfill everyone else's expectations for her ---her parents', her children's, her faith community's and even her perception of what she thought God wanted her to be. Whatever the reason, her book is very good, particularly because she's such a good writer. The lines in the introduction that grabbed me were these: "About a fourth of the way into writing the first draft of this book, I found my voice. This was a much better proportion than the 50 percent of my life I have spent trying to figure out who I am." A sentence or two later, she writes, "The other half of the time I've tripped into the traps of comparing myself either to someone else or to some impossible standard." And so starts chapter after chapter of well-written prose examining bits and pieces of her life as mom, wife, daughter, artist, writer, friend and church member, learning to tune out everyone else's voice and discover, for the first time in her life, a true sense of freedom. As a writer, this freedom allows her to stop trying to sound on paper like somebody else; as a Christian, she learned to cease conforming to her faith community's impossible standard of perfection and "lack of emotionalism." As a mom, it meant stopping to try to make her three boys perfect and as a daughter, it was a fresh permission to look back on her father's life from the perspective of adulthood, with a much better appreciation of how much he loved her, even if he had trouble expressing it. In her first essay, Knapp explains she was voted "Most Likely To Succeed" by her high school classmates, a title she found flattering at the time, but in looking back, "was actually rather cruel." The phrase "carries a burden of proof that is missed at eighteen, but painfully obvious at forty." In less than a hundred paragraphs she unravels what it means to be a success comparing her son, who is complaining he'll never grow to be able to compete with much larger and more talented boys, to her own life. "I have wanted the desires of my heart and the toil of my hands to produce instant results, like the time-lapsed National Geographic films of lilies blooming or baby chicks hatching. Anything I could imagine producing --- whether it was art or money or children --- would seamlessly and gracefully unfold while a soft-spoken narrator gently explained every well-ordered and beautiful phrase. But in my experience, life doesn't work that way...When my Big Zero year was approaching, I was defending myself against the feeling that zero was also the sum total of my life. I couldn't get the thought out of my mind that by forty I should be slam-dunking life in a tank top with armpits full of hair too. Like Eric's, my desire for stature and my need to achieve something really big by then had grown so overblown that it blurred a long-ago strongly held sense of identity. I should have heeded my own advice to Eric, only slightly adjusted for middle age: You do need a deep sense of who you are on the inside when surrounded, seemingly, by people whose glands drained way before yours." As a writer myself, I often hope for one or two great sentences --- and I mean, really great sentences like Knapp's --- per essay. Knapp's work is filled with so many great lines that thumbing through my copy shows more underlined prose than not. This quick read has plenty of "ah ha" lines that will leave you not only smiling, but also wanting to leave your copy on the nightstand to come back to, again and again. --- Reviewed by Diana Keough
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Summary: From-the-heart musings about living with hands of clay
Review: Reading this book is like a revitalizing cup of tea with an old friend. Whether she's up to her elbows at the discount meat freezer or on her knees, comforting her young son after his pet pullets flock to the great "chicken coop in the sky," Lee artistically captures ordinary slices of life and reveals the grace-filled linings underneath. If you're a foster parent or adoptive parent, or even if you just like wedding stories, I double-dare you not to cry over "The Wedding Banquet."
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Summary: Singular Gifts
Review: This book shines from cover to cover. With its careful treatment of humor, depth, the gamut of emotions, _Grace in the First Person_ leaves the reader, regardless of age, reeling. At moments I laughed so hard that unsettling flashbacks to grade-school-lunch-table-milk-out-the-nose-laughing-because-of-a-potty-joke episodes entered my mind. THe author has the ability to keep the reader rapt, and rapped around her finger while taking us through her life in middle-class suburbia. Fine writing. Really fine.
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