No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One

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Summary: Informative, Poignant, & Necessary
Review: Carla Fine has written the bible for suicide survivors. Thank you, thank you, and God bless you, Ms. Fine! And to all of you who found this book healing and helpful and need something else to read, I highly recommend the novel A SECRET WORD, by Jennifer Paddock. She is herself a suicide survivor and writes about it with Carla Fine's honesty and empathy. It's bar none the best novel on the subject I've ever read. If those who are out there and are contemplating suicide would just read these books, you'd see what the devastating results would be to your loss, and you probably couldn't go through with it. You wouldn't want to. You couldn't.

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Summary: difficult, but important, book
Review: Carla Fine writes with sincerity and honesty about all aspects of suicide. I read it like it was keeping me from drowning. I read about many other survivors, like me, who had lost a relative or loved one to suicide. This book is for the survivor. And it truly helps you to realize you are not alone and that others feel the same way. Thankfully, I've never been ashamed of what my brother did and I haven't been angry at him. If you've read this book, please tell everyone you know about it. Because suicide is so secretive, you'd be surprised how many other people are survivors like you are. So share this book please.

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Summary: A Top Notch Book
Review: Carla Fine writes with sincerity and honesty about all aspects of suicide. I read it like it was keeping me from drowning. I read about many other survivors, like me, who had lost a relative or loved one to suicide. This book is for the survivor. And it truly helps you to realize you are not alone and that others feel the same way. Thankfully, I've never been ashamed of what my brother did and I haven't been angry at him. If you've read this book, please tell everyone you know about it. Because suicide is so secretive, you'd be surprised how many other people are survivors like you are. So share this book please.

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Summary: Carla Fine: Amazing person writes an amazing book
Review: Carla leaves no stone unturned. She captures insights from the survivors from whose stories we can even gain a perspective on those that left us behind. She pointedly shows that tragically, oftentimes the signs are there yet for some reason whether it is by some form of unconscious denial or a cushioned buffer we just don't notice those signs enough to react in time to help our loved ones. Or so we may think! The common denominator is that survivors wear themselves down trying to figure it all out before realizing that the solution may never be clear. Acceptance and reconciliation with the self vis-a-vis this life-changing event are the first steps toward mourning and healing. The writing is exceptional. There was not one disappointing page. This was a well-planned, well-researched, well prepared, book. Every survivor will relate to something written there that seems to come out of our mind and flow into the pages of her book. A resource book and must read for every survivor of a suicide. Thank you to Carla Fine for your candor and honesty and for this gift to life for the ages.

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Summary: The first and best book I read on survivors of suicide
Review: I am lucky to have this book as the first book that was given to me after my boyfriend killed himself. I was searching for answers and experiencing a strange grief that I had no point of reference for. This book was my reference. It comforted me, identified with me exactly and covers the suvivors expereince so well, that I felt I was not alone. Not a small task! It also gave me hope for the future. Thanks to Carla Fine!

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Summary: Outstanding!
Review: I found this book the best help from all the books I have read. It shows that suicide survivors are not alone in their quest for answers to their sudden loss. And the multitude of examples listed will give everyone an opportunity to identify with another person who has been through more or less the same ordeal. I would like to recommend this book above all the others that are listed under suicide survivors. It is sympathetic, understanding, and much more help than I ever anticipated.

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Summary: difficult, but important, book
Review: I lost my mom and my brother to suicide; my sister keeps trying. This book has done more than I thought possible to make me understand that the anger and guilt and anguish that I feel at my loss can be overcome. The stories the author shares put a voice to my own experiences as a survivor.

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Summary: A suicide support group in a hard cover.
Review: In a frantic attempt to understand the sudden suicide of my brother, I read numerous suicide related titles. Carla Fine's "No Time to Say Goodbye : Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One" was the only book which in anyway connected with my raw feelings as a survivor. It's not a great academic study of suicide. The professional, academic titles are painfully remote, inaccurate and inadequate from a survivor's perspective. "No Time to Say Goodbye:" doesn't answer the only question that matters most to survivors, "Why?". It provides a supporting context for the horrendous assault on a survivor's emotional and intellectual resources following a loved one's suicide. Knowing that others feel the same things doesn't make the pain go away, but reassures that probably you too will survive what feels unbearable. I personally found this book more helpful that the visits to "professional" counselors. Some things in life have to be experienced, not studied, to be understood. Sadly the author has the painful real life credentials to understand and connect with survivors. From her own traumatic loss Carla Fine has provided a great measure of help in what appears to be a helpless situation.