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Summary: Unbelievably enlightening
Review: I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about the hidden dynamics in personal relationships. The authors did a great job bringing the issues to light. ---
John D. Moore
Author of Confusing Love with Obsession
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Summary: This book will change your life!
Review: I read this book a few years ago and it felt like someone was looking in my windows. It was so hard to believe there was a whole world of people out there who felt exactly the same was as I did. Insecurity does not equal love. It might produce the butterflies but that is not love. I found that I was always smothering my husband and this led to his withdrawing from me even further. If you find that you are obssessed with thinking your mate is cheating or you have been told by someone "I need my space" then this book is a must read for you. It also gives valuable information for single people so they can avoid scaring away any prospective mates. I passed on my copy and hope it's still in circulation out there. I can't recommend this book enough!
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Summary: Totally secure by the time I finished this book!
Review: I was skeptical at first when a good friend told me to read this book. Boy was I worng. This is a true testimonial of why we behave in certain ways in love relationships. I have read it twice over the past two years and learned more each time I read it. My feelings and emotions are normal. What a great feeling. I am feeling better about myself and the relationship I am in and by readingthe book can understand manyh concepts of insecurites I didn't before. The auther is to be commended for his brilliant work. It has truly changed my life.
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Summary: What a waste
Review: I was sooooo disappointed. I had high expectations for this book and found that it was really nothing more then stories told from a counselors chair. This book told me nothing about how to overcome the problems, but instead focused on experiments conducted to account for jealous partners. Truly a waste...there are other books out there that are much more useful.
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Summary: trust in your relationship and each other again
Review: Just when I thought I could trust no more and our relationship was over along came a recommendation to read this book. It has taught us the important question, Why do people mistrust in relationships allowing them to feel so insecure. This book has allowed us to understand this important question and brought us to a whole new understanding about why we became so insecure and how we could trust in each other and ourselves again. A must for any couple!!
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Summary: A clearer understanding
Review: This book offers important insight and helpful information for those who need help with love and relationships.
John D. Moore
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Author of Confusing Love with Obsession
When You Can't Stop Controlling Your Partner & the Relationship
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Summary: Enlightening!
Review: This book was very helpful to me. I was in a very abusive relationship, and it was very helpful to know how to overcome being insecure, so I could move on and live my life to the fullest. I would recommend this book for anyone who needs to know what they're so insecure about, and also about whats going wrong in your relationship. It is very helpful--take it from someone who now isn't insecure about themselves, and can love people once again.
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Summary: 2004 Updated Author Comments
Review: When we initially published this book fifteen years ago, we feared that it wouldn't do well among mass market self-help books. It seemed too scientifically oriented and concerned with explaining the intricacies of the research results, rather than giving the quick 'good feelings' which seem to characterize self-help books. Academic and professional colleagues who enjoyed the book, and some who required it in their college classes, sometimes asked, "Why don't you write a popular version of this book?" -- And our answer always has been, "This IS the popular version!" Fifteen years in the bookstores, and 18 printings later, we are delighted to confirm that good research leads to a lasting contribution. While thousands of self-help books on love relationships have come and gone in the past fifteen years, this book has only grown in popularity with the passing years. It vindicates us about our earliest tenet in writing the book: that a rigorous effort at presenting scientifically-grounded information to be public is worthwhile, and that the reader should not be underestimated. We are located in the Boston, MA area and always welcome your ideas and input. Please visit our website at www.hindyassociates.com, and do not hesitate to e-mail.
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Summary: 2004 Updated Author Comments
Review: When we initially published this book fifteen years ago, we feared that it wouldn't do well among mass market self-help books. It seemed too scientifically oriented and concerned with explaining the intricacies of the research results, rather than giving the quick 'good feelings' which seem to characterize self-help books. Academic and professional colleagues who enjoyed the book, and some who required it in their college classes, sometimes asked, "Why don't you write a popular version of this book?" -- And our answer always has been, "This IS the popular version!" Fifteen years in the bookstores, and 18 printings later, we are delighted to confirm that good research leads to a lasting contribution. While thousands of self-help books on love relationships have come and gone in the past fifteen years, this book has only grown in popularity with the passing years. It vindicates us about our earliest tenet in writing the book: that a rigorous effort at presenting scientifically-grounded information to be public is worthwhile, and that the reader should not be underestimated. We are located in the Boston, MA area and always welcome your ideas and input. Please visit our website at www.hindyassociates.com, and do not hesitate to e-mail.
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