Get Smart With Your Heart: The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Love, Lust, and Lasting Relationships

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Summary: Excellent, well-written relationship advice
Review: Get smart with your heart is a well written practical relationship guide for singles and couples. It is well organized in its step by step approach towards obtaining healthy, happy, successful relationships. The PPP (personal partnering process)is an excellent and honest way to evaluate an individuals personality without undergoing years of therapy and batteries of personality tests to ascertain our compatability. Lopez's corresponding charts of compatability with other PPP types is an excellent and user friendly guide towards accomplishing successful relationships. Most of all Ms, Lopez's focus on the self- the individual- and the enlightenment and the importance of each individual knowing "who they really are" is one of the key ingredients not only in relationships but in personal happiness. As a practicing physician who deals with individuals problems daily I found Lopez's advice to be extremely accurate and helpful and I have recommended her book to my patients.

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Summary: SUZANNE LOPEZ GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER!!!
Review: Suzanne Lopez gets to the heart of dating and relationships in GETTING SMART WITH YOUR HEART. Ms. Lopez uses a similar thorough approach to what Leil Lowndes did in HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, but the big difference is that this book is even more direct than Lowndes' on the subject of religious and racial differences in dating, as she stresses that good relationships are not based on differences, but on similarities.

In one chapter Ms. Lopez types men by numbers and numerous personality characteristics, and that's the only part of the book I'm not sure about, since women seem to choose the wrong men enough without trying to type them by numbers and then making predictions about them, but the way she organizes the numbers and the types of men is fascinating.

Another terrific section in GETTING SMART WITH YOUR HEART is where Ms. Lopez stresses letting men pay for dates, and even gives a list of the expenses a woman has just to go out for a date, something I never even thought about before!

GETTING SMART WITH YOUR HEART is a great book about dating and relationships written for women but good for anybody--male or female!...

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Summary: I really like the step by step practical approach.
Review: There are many sections in the book that can be used individually. This makes it very practical for the modern day fast paced single person.

I did not put the book down until I had read it to the end. I believe this book is also very useful to very young singles. My college aged daughter can really benefit from it and as soon as it is out in paperback I will mail her a copy.