How to Find a Good Black Man

Rating:
Summary: This Book Should Be As Thick As The Yellow Pages!
Review: 1) A good woman don't want a shady, slick underhanded guy. She does want a guy savvy enough to spot and handle a character like this, regardless of gender. 2)When most good women say you're too nice, that's a nice way of saying you're too boring. Importantly, you don't have to be a bad boy to be interesting. 3) I personally have never did the neck dance, glaring with contempt or sneer at seeing a black man with a white woman. Granted I Do feel Something and that something is more clearly defined depending on how the couple react to me. Too often I've found them too reactionary- assuming I don't approve. The brother will openly present an annoyed frown. My advise to such couples is ignore whatever reaction you get and deal with the boisterous nay Sayers individually. Otherwise your defensive posture will create enemies you didn't have before. Might I note, don't be hatin' when you see me with my blond haired blue eyed white man.

4) As far as dealing with any man, if a lot of testy, boisterous behavior is required, I don't want that baby sitting job. It's like buying a used car you can drive apposed to one that need a lot of work in order to run. Certain personality types trigger that side of us. Some black women think that's just the way it is with men, especially black men. But wade through the cesspool until you come up with that gem of a man that never bring out the finger waving side of your personality. Brothers can do the same if they'd really rather be with a black woman. 5) Yo Money? Over the years I've did my share of charity dates. We may never love you but appreciate the time, kindness and practice we provided. 6)As cheap or leaching as most men are today, there are little material and monetary rewards to be gained. A real prostitute is smart enough to ask for her money upfront. 7) Dutch? As a traditionalist, I expect the man to pay most of the time, other wise I'll opt to go out by myself. 8) Summery: I don't take offence to most of what was said in this book because I'm not the type of woman Mc Clendon is cleaning up for a good black man. I do know quite a few who is the type but will never read This or any other book. When I first walked up on it, I thought it should be as thick as the yellow pages. But undoubtedly would've been filled with a lot of unnecessary page filling crap. Instead I felt Mc Clendon kept to the point of his topics. True, a brother that had a message for sisters but also a writer who wanted a book on the market. Like any survey genuine or not, I found the statistics and tips in the back of the book interesting and worth the purchase price. Lets keep that updated.

Rating:
Summary: This Book Should Be As Thick As The Yellow Pages!
Review: 1) A good woman don't want a shady, slick underhanded guy. She does want a guy savvy enough to spot and handle a character like this, regardless of gender. 2)When most good women say you're too nice, that's a nice way of saying you're too boring. Importantly, you don't have to be a bad boy to be interesting. 3) I personally have never did the neck dance, glaring with contempt or sneer at seeing a black man with a white woman. Granted I Do feel Something and that something is more clearly defined depending on how the couple react to me. Too often I've found them too reactionary- assuming I don't approve. The brother will openly present an annoyed frown. My advise to such couples is ignore whatever reaction you get and deal with the boisterous nay Sayers individually. Otherwise your defensive posture will create enemies you didn't have before. Might I note, don't be hatin' when you see me with my blond haired blue eyed white man.

4) As far as dealing with any man, if a lot of testy, boisterous behavior is required, I don't want that baby sitting job. It's like buying a used car you can drive apposed to one that need a lot of work in order to run. Certain personality types trigger that side of us. Some black women think that's just the way it is with men, especially black men. But wade through the cesspool until you come up with that gem of a man that never bring out the finger waving side of your personality. Brothers can do the same if they'd really rather be with a black woman. 5) Yo Money? Over the years I've did my share of charity dates. We may never love you but appreciate the time, kindness and practice we provided. 6)As cheap or leaching as most men are today, there are little material and monetary rewards to be gained. A real prostitute is smart enough to ask for her money upfront. 7) Dutch? As a traditionalist, I expect the man to pay most of the time, other wise I'll opt to go out by myself. 8) Summery: I don't take offence to most of what was said in this book because I'm not the type of woman Mc Clendon is cleaning up for a good black man. I do know quite a few who is the type but will never read This or any other book. When I first walked up on it, I thought it should be as thick as the yellow pages. But undoubtedly would've been filled with a lot of unnecessary page filling crap. Instead I felt Mc Clendon kept to the point of his topics. True, a brother that had a message for sisters but also a writer who wanted a book on the market. Like any survey genuine or not, I found the statistics and tips in the back of the book interesting and worth the purchase price. Lets keep that updated.

Rating:
Summary: Dance with his soul
Review: HOW TO FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN uses prose to give its readers first-hand knowledge from a man's point of view. It tells the what, why, how, and where to finding a good Black man and gives a brief example of each. Furthermore, Mr. McClendon suggests in order for a woman to find a "good Black man," she first has to dance with his soul. Expensive clothes, fancy cars, nice houses and other materialistic things do not make a man; they just get your attention faster. Knowing a person's inner being gives you more access to his soul and by taking this route it let's you know what makes him tick (so to speak).

HOW TO FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN starts with hilarious banter and ends with out-dated statistics, questionable sources and contradictions. The book lacked substance for a "self-help" guide; it seemed things were thrown in for the sake of volume. McClendon gives more of a viewpoint without offering "how to" suggestions for a better outcome. It reads more like a Why You Didn't Find a Good Black Man than a How to Find...

Reviewed by Ess Mays
of The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers

Rating:
Summary: Dance with his soul
Review: HOW TO FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN uses prose to give its readers first-hand knowledge from a man's point of view. It tells the what, why, how, and where to finding a good Black man and gives a brief example of each. Furthermore, Mr. McClendon suggests in order for a woman to find a "good Black man," she first has to dance with his soul. Expensive clothes, fancy cars, nice houses and other materialistic things do not make a man; they just get your attention faster. Knowing a person's inner being gives you more access to his soul and by taking this route it let's you know what makes him tick (so to speak).

HOW TO FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN starts with hilarious banter and ends with out-dated statistics, questionable sources and contradictions. The book lacked substance for a "self-help" guide; it seemed things were thrown in for the sake of volume. McClendon gives more of a viewpoint without offering "how to" suggestions for a better outcome. It reads more like a Why You Didn't Find a Good Black Man than a How to Find...

Reviewed by Ess Mays
of The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers