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Lapdancer

Lapdancer

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Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Insightful Interpretation of Strip World
Review: Great book, the photo's are an insightful look into a world most of us never see.

Beasely captures natural and spontaneous moments that at times were shocking and sensitive towards the subject matter. As a veteran stripper, she looks wisely at her own experience working as a lapdancer. The book is also interspersed with sincere interviews with customers and dancers. throughout the book.

Unlike other readers in the review section, I was particuliarly moved by the humanization of the subjects instead of what one normally sees--sensationalized male fantasies. No Barbie dolls here! Most impressive are the customers' honest dire need for closeness and the dancers sincere ambivalence about their relationships and simultaneous cunning to make a good salary.

I found this book a contradictory pleasure and at the same time a bolt disturbing reality of a world in which the lonely buy affection and attention.

I'm thankful there are some artists out there who are not afraid of showing the truth without imbedding their own feminist agendas into the framework of a documetary book which is complete with photos and text.

A must read!

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Insightful Interpretation of Strip World
Review: Great book, the photo's are an insightful look into a world most of us never see.

Beasely captures natural and spontaneous moments that at times were shocking and sensitive towards the subject matter. As a veteran stripper, she looks wisely at her own experience working as a lapdancer. The book is also interspersed with sincere interviews with customers and dancers. throughout the book.

Unlike other readers in the review section, I was particuliarly moved by the humanization of the subjects instead of what one normally sees--sensationalized male fantasies. No Barbie dolls here! Most impressive are the customers' honest dire need for closeness and the dancers sincere ambivalence about their relationships and simultaneous cunning to make a good salary.

I found this book a contradictory pleasure and at the same time a bolt disturbing reality of a world in which the lonely buy affection and attention.

I'm thankful there are some artists out there who are not afraid of showing the truth without imbedding their own feminist agendas into the framework of a documetary book which is complete with photos and text.

A must read!

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: A recommended book for documentary photography lovers
Review: I was shocked and disappointed to see the copy of Lapdancer placed high up above everyone's heads in the Barns and Noble in Philadelphia.
Are they afraid someone might get lost in their fantasies and daydreams of Lapdancing in the pages? The photos are not porn,
they are real, honest and though
sometime awkward to look at, they represent a world which is rarely revealed or shared.
The beauty of the book are the photographs and the moments spent paging through and look at the
vivid and intimate images of the dancers are what makes this so incredibly powerful.

Regardless of where the book was placed, I bought a copy and have been sharing it with friends ever since.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Stunning Work of Art
Review: Lapdancer delivers an analysis of the life and culture of strip club dancers and their customers through photographs and essays. I was pleased with the sharpness of wit and honesty of an artist that the author put forth in her work. The book is like the gritty rock and roll or thumping techno that is heard in the clubs. It captures that element of fantasy but at the same time gives you the a hint of the rhythms and beats that drive the men who go to the clubs and the women who work there, all the while being just as sexy and playful as a dancer under the neon and blacklight. This book is beautiful. This book is art. Buy this book and enjoy!

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: The Dark Side of the Strip Joint.
Review: Lapdancer is an awesome book of photography that perfectly, and realistically captures the heart and the subculture of stripping . The stories are surreal, as are the photographs themselves. The desperation of the pathetic patrons of these seedy joints comes out well. Their bloated faces, and frat boy outfits each tell a thousand different stories. This is not erotic, but gritty, and you feel for both the dancers and the customers. Why a strip joint patron would spend thousands of dollars on a stripper who he isnt going to ever have sex with is beyond me. But the book takes the reader behind the scenes, and captures exactly what the red light district is all about. And thats money. Many, many shots of the girls back in the dressing rooms counting outrageous sums of money for a few moments of gyrating above a desperate man. But the shots of the customers make the book worth buying. These guys remind me of everything I refuse to be. Fantastic art, beautiful, even haunting photographs, and a quick glimpse into the dirty, seedy world of strippers and the fools who worship them.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Great journey through words and photographs
Review: Like all the other reviewers have said, this book is a must read. Check it out now!

Rating: 1 stars
Summary: Dont buy this book.
Review: The author took these photographs without the permission of many of the dancers.These girls have children,family, and other jobs.She asked many of the girls and they said no.Infact one of the clubs told her she did not permission to take any photos of any kind.These photos could ruin some of these girls lives as they choose to keep the dancing a secret.I have heard that some of the dancers are thinking about suing.I worked with this girl and she asked many people if they would pose and they said no.She took these photos anyway.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: Takes You Into Another World
Review: This is a superb work of documentary photography. Beasley is a true anthropologist, who through years of painstaking work has enabled non-strip-club denizens to get a look at what it's like inside. Her subjects include both dancers and customers, and she catches them in moments of boredom, stress, surprise and lust. Beaseley takes us into a world that is invisible to many even though it's just down the freeway from me or you.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: a realistic look
Review: When I first got my copy of Lapdancer, I looked at every picture without reading the text. The pictures are certainly gritty, depressing and both the men and women appear hard, ugly and sometimes pathetic. I must also note at this point that to take pictures of dancers and customers in a working strip club (and enough pictures to make a book), is extremely rare and should be commended right from the start.

Then I read the accompanying text. Beasley herself was a realistic dancer who did not fool herself into any mind games. She worked for her money and worked hard. Most of the other strippers that she knew seemed to have the same pragmatic attitude. There is little posturing in this book about control, feminist politics, society at large, her personal relationships or how her life was changed, other than the fact that she made this book.

She also collected numerous stories from both dancers and customers and these stories accompany the majority of the pictures, making up the main text of the book. The men always seem to end up heartbroken, or at least with a bruised ego. The women, if not talking about a personal relationship, are simply working. To make money they know they have to play a certain game and they do. Sometimes they recount things that happened on the job that were shocking or hurtful to them. If you want sweeping social generalizations, then you could see this as the War Between the Sexes stripped down to the bare bones. But those are my words, Beasley does not make these claims. She simply presents what she has experienced.

Overall, this is a very honest look at the strip club dynamic. While most clubs in America are topless clubs, not nude lapdance clubs, the words of this book ring true. The pictures are extreme, to me, since this was not my reality while I danced. I can appreciate the honesty which comes through, however. I would give it 10 stars if they had that many, so for now, five will have to do.

Rating: 5 stars
Summary: medium rare
Review: when I first saw this book, it captured my attention right away. Finally, a real life account of a woman with a plan who "chooses" the darker side of employment to find finacial security. Not only that, but it included short stories from the woman she worked with AND the customers they served.
How could this get better?
PICTURES! very real pictures of real people displaying the Grit, the Glamore, and sometimes the "I don't want to see that". I love artsy coffee table type books and this is now a permanent fixture in my living room.
I've spent many a night in the loud, dark, smokey clubs filled with naked woman shaking their ass-ettes in my face. I never truly understood the truth behind their job or life style untill I picked up this book.
This book is real, its raw, and it sheds a dim light on the subject of stripping. I recomend this book to anyone who has ever been to aa strip club, or entertained the idea of working at one.


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