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Summary: Great for people who love and give "too much"
Review: I wouldn't follow the rules to the letter, but when you feel yourself giving more to a relationship then you're getting, this is a good reference that forces you to slow down. Step away from the relationship, spend some time taking care of yourself instead of being so wrapped up in him. Allow him time to realize the gem you are, if you're calling 2 or 3 times a day just to "say hi" and you become clingy, even mildly so, it can be a big turnoff. I recommend this book, just don't take it too seriously, there is no way I can stick to the 10 minute phone call rule when we're having a great conversation, and I see no need to do so. On the other hand, I agree about not calling guys, I can't tell you how many times I've called, they were busy, and my feelings were hurt. It does feel much better when they call me, and yes I do return their phone calls, I think it's just plain rude not to. Like any advice, apply the parts that fit with your personality and your life and leave the rest behind.
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Summary: Hated it at first. Now, I know this book is good & true.
Review: I was one of those women who opposed the concepts of this book years ago when it was first published. (...). Well, here it is some years later and to my pleasant dismay, I've discovered that MOST (not all) of the concepts have been quite helpful in my social life. I have weeded out some REAL losers and weirdos among the male population. Too much critcism was placed on the rather lightweight rules, for example the phone calls. But credit was not given to the authors about refusing to date married men, playing house (shacking) and liking oneself -- all three are very GOOD rules. Even if you don't agree with everything (I didn't), overall this books is good. Mothers with pre-adolescent daughters should keep a copy of this book for eternity. At the very least, a young woman will NOT waste her precious time, money and emotions on WORTHLESS males.
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Summary: If you're happy alone, then men will wonder why and want you
Review: The Rules, in my humble opinion, is a delightful, outstanding gift from God(dess). It's a regimented set of rules for women who think they need a man to bring them happiness. It's a gift for those women and also for their friends who have to drop what they're doing and talk their girlfriend out of crying fits over the latest guy who broke their heart. Look at Rule #1, it's not "Women, always lie to him, don't call him, don't feed him after midnight", it's "Be a Creature Unlike Any Other." In other words, be yourself and be confident and proud with that self. How many women have trouble even completing that step? How many of us have sat at home hoping, praying that he'd call and getting devastated when he doesn't? If we had a grip on Rule #1, we wouldn't go through that drama and pain. We'd know that we're worth more than a man who can't call us and that someday, the man who remembers our number will find us. Until then, we're fine enjoying our own company and the company of our girlfriends. Bottom line is, your life should not revolve around a man. Have something else to do, men don't like clingy women and you shouldn't want to be clingy. Don't tell him everything on the first date. Would you tell the HR person that you need a week off to visit your sick brother at the job interview? Nope, you'd wait until you were hired! Why do people get so upset when these authors give the same advice on dating relationships? I have one minor quibble with the book. The authors suggest that men prefer long hair. I don't think that matters. (Halle Berry, anyone?) Bottom line, volunteer somewhere, read a book, go for a walk, do anything except wait around for a man. Most of us have been through heartbreak and this book is a good place to start if you'd like to avoid it.
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Summary: Interesting Rules
Review: I'm a male who picked this up just to gain some insight into woman and dating. I must admit this book is hilarious and from the aspect of comic relief alone this book is a must read. As I look back it occurs to me the best relationships I've been in the women broke all the rules. On the other hand the woman that employed the rules didn't get a date with me or certainly didn't get 2nd, 3rd dates, etc, so I don't know how these rules can possibly lead to marriage since they seem to kill your chances of getting 2nd, 3rd or 4th dates. I do recommend this book for men who are often confused about the mixed messages we receive from women; it's probably because of this book or a similar one. If you're gonna play it's only fair to know "the rules" of the game.
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Summary: Rules...for men..To recognize and avoid such game players!
Review: Though this book is rather dated, I read this, and realize now why one author was divorced...it's hard to keep up the games and deceit..for long, after the honeymoon is over, and the two are really discovering who the other is, in a 24/7 relationship. Instead of having a best friend..emphasis on "friend" as in loyal knowing and respectful friend, and lover, one is encouraged to follow these silly rules and have a man fall in love with a manipulative woman, smoke and mirrors, a caricature, who briefly captures his heart, only to lose his heart and respect down the line when the deceitful charade falls apart in time....pathetic...for the author, as well as for the women who follow her flawed advice, and watch her man later fall out of love for her when he learns the rules as well. A "rules" girl is not a long term partner...if a man desires a loving and honest, "down to earth partner, rather than a manipulative partner. And that's not to say some men won't be attracted to such a woman...at first....there are some good commonsense ideas in here amidst the drivel.. It enhances some aspects of self esteem for the woman in a round about way, and there are many far better, more honest ways to work on that if it needs some enhancement. I heartily recommend men to read this book, just to recognize "players" who "play" with, and initially "capture" his heart and emotions, by using The Rules. Thus a smart man can avoid wasting another date with such game players, and find a woman who lets him know her, and really appreciate and love her for who she really is, in a growing, caring sharing relationship...Then, perhaps, we'll have more solid living marriages/relationships based on honesty truthfulness, with resultant love, warmth and fidelity.
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Summary: IT WORKS
Review: This book is NOT anti-feminist, it is really feminist. It is about feeling good about yourself, having your own life, maintaining a positive self-image, and knowing when to move on.
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Summary: This is some really creepy stuff
Review: Do women with IQs above 35 actually believe this drivel? How does lying and manipulating one's way through the dating process create a lasting and secure relationship? The only part of the Rules phenomenon that I liked was taken care of by the Department of Schadenfreude: co-author Ellen Fein's husband left her, citing abandonment. Beautiful.
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Summary: it's about getting a life
Review: i loved the lesson i learned from this book. yes, some of the rules are extememly hokey, but look at the overall gist. if you follow the rules and learn to think you are a "creature unlike any other," walking into a room like you own it, excercising, taking care of your body and appearance, making yourself go out even when you dont want to, etc. all these things will change you and you will wind up not having to pretend to be busy when he calls-- you will be busy because you have your own life not based around a man!
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Summary: Some women suffer from life-long fear
Review: Poorly written defensive advice on overly exagerated fear to male's power over women. The authors' advice is not meant for a healthy relationship of equality. It mistakenly encourages women to present themselves as cold, aloof and dysfunctional in relationship. I doubt if any dignified men would fall for these rules. I will pass women of this kind and go for many loving women out there.
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Summary: Recap on Changed my dating life for positive!
Review: I wrote an earlier review, and wanted to give an update. As of now, I get asked out more than I have the time for! The only chapter this book needs is how to turn down dates. There are just too many! I think I can figure it out, but it would be nice to have a chapter in there anyway. :)
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