Daddy's Roommate

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Summary: Good book to open your children's eyes
Review: As a straight person, I am glad to see a book such as this one. I'm a 20 year old college student and was assigned to read a children's book which has created some controversy. It's obvious that I had picked a good book.

When I showed my boyfriend the book he said something along the lines of ..."Oh this is wrong because it's promoting homosexuality..." This is completely false.

Informing our children that there are millions of people who are gay and that they are not bad people (unlike what many hypocritical religious freaks would say), is not promoting it. Being a heterosexual is not an excuse for being ignorant.

The book does not concentrate on the divorce of the little boys mother and father, but why should it? The main topic is about his gay father's new relationship, not the divorce.

One last comment to the people who have complained about this book...especially the so called 'religious' people: You are so hateful and I think it's a shame you can even use the word 'GOD', to support the hate that lives in your heart. You are too concerned with telling everyone else to read the bible, when actually, you are the ones who might need to sweep the cobwebs off and take a peek.

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Summary: Our family was not the only good family
Review: During my own childhood, my parents tried to instil open values in myself and my younger brother. We were regularly encouraged to read books about groups outside of our own and develop a strong sense of fairness.

While we did not have a chance to read this book during our own childhoods, I can vouch it is an important library addition for any parent wanting their child to grow up secure enough with themselves so they do not pick on others and/or deal with personal problems.

In his age-appropriate text (although the 'roomate' terminology is confusing after the depth of description), Willhoite demonstrates there are all kinds of good families. Both Daddy and Frank are very interested in providing a safe and stable enviroment for the youth---and enjoy an apparently supportive relationship with the mother (finding out you are the spouse of a GLBT person is not an easy position in our society) making his own growth an innately easier journey.

Not fancy by today's computer-pumped standards, the illustrations help reinforce the true meaning of caring. It is ultimately how you treat yourself and others which should determine what happens. Thus, the book purposefully ignores the possibility of daddy and Frank being hate crime and/or discrimination victims, a scenario which may worry older children after a parent's disclosure.

Realizing there are other families across the USA for whom the journey is nowhere near as smooth, I appreciate the candor attempting to end the cycle of hate-depression which takes a heavy toll on our youth. Like GLBT people themselves, the children of GLBT parents (a growing category!) have few 'safe' resources to utilize.

That many school districts and libraries outside of 'GLBT mecca's' do not presently stock this title unless a battle ensues ultimately reveals more about their fear of the 'different' and unfamiliar, than any inherent flaws within this book (and simmilar titles). Isolating the children of GLBT parents and potential heterosexual alies is much more simple than recognizing and overcoming our own bigotry.

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Summary: Wonderful book to use in coming out to very young children.
Review: I highly recommend this book to any gay fathers that intend to come out to a very young child. It covers the subject of divorce and dad's new living arrangements in a very respectful and age appropriate style. I think that having a book that my youngest son can read himself is going to be a great benefit to him in his understanding of the changes in my life and his.

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Summary: WTF?!!!
Review: O.K. a book that tells little kids that your dad/mom and his/her room mate are gay. WTF has this world come to?!!! male/male and female/female relationship arnt sopose to happen. but who cares let the gay ppl do as they please. Oh i know we can send them to mars!

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Summary: Good book to open your children's eyes
Review: The story presents this different lifestyle in a very matter of fact way, but becomes trite and fails to explain to any depth what being gay is. The story and illustrations are very stereotypical. The illustrations are low quality and simplistic. The story would be useful for young kids with gay parents, but not for introducing this topic to other students. I did like the description of being gay as "just another form of love," but it still doesn't really touch the issue. And what's up with the guys sleeping together, is that necessary?

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Summary: Very appropiate for specific situations
Review: This book is very good if addressing a similar situation as the one described in it; a father getting divorced and moving in with his male lover. It is well written for young kids, and it could serve as a first eye opener. It does not have all the answers, and I think it was not intended to. There are other books that provide more in depth explanations, but this one serves its purpose very well.

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Summary: could be so much better
Review: This book is wonderful in its explanation of moms and dads divorcing and daddy finding a new and different kind of relationship. Very thoughtful, well-written - a must have for any young child of gay parents. Daddy's Roommate, and many more like it, are the focus of our website, ..., which caters to gay parents and their children.

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Summary: could be so much better
Review: This book, along with "Heather Has Two Mommies" would be useful for younger children who have a gay "co-parenting" family situation to help other children from more traditional homes understand their peers better, but not as a aprt of a "tolerance" or "inclusive" curriculum. Schools should not intentionally introduce controversial subjects unless it is to address a certain situation in a school or class.

I do not like the book's simplistic explanation of "gay." "...it's a different kind of love...." As an early childhood educator I like Rosie O'Donnell's explanation much better where she says something like "most men love women and most women love men but some men love men and some women love women."