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Summary: Do you want God's choice for your marriage? Then read on....
Review: If you really want the lifetime mate that GOD HAS CHOSEN FOR YOU, then this is the book for you. Elisabeth Elliot effectively communicates the Biblical principle that if you do things God's way, and not the way our culture says to, then you can find the mate He has chosen for you. And then you can fulfill the plan God has for your lives. As Christians, why would you want it any other way? When I became a Christian, I realized that my choices so far had not been the best ones, and that a sovereign God can, and is willing, to do that for me. When I realized that God did have the perfect person for me, that I just had to wait on him, then to me dating others was a waste of my time. Why indulge my flesh kissing someone I have not plans to marry? I wouldn't want my husband to be kissing someone else before I met him, so why should I? I learned to depend on God during the uncertain, and sometimes lonely times until I married 5 years ago. Elisabeth Elliot gives you a practical roadmap to achieve this. This is one of the best books I have ever read. I have many other friends who depended on God, and not themselves, to provide a mate and are all happily married.
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Summary: AWSOME!!!!!
Review: I AM STARTING OVER AFTER A BAD 2 YEAR ENGAGEMENT RELATIONSHIP AND THIS HELPS. IT GAVE ME A PLACE TO START OVER IN MY DAILY CHRISTIAN WALK. IT LOOKS AT HER LOVE LIFE AS A MISSIONARY WAITING FOR LOVE TO ASK HER, AND THE TRIALS SHE WENT THROUGH. ITS GREAT IN UNDERSTANDING AND COMPARING, AND LEARNING FROM MISTAKES,AND WHAT TO DO NEXT TIME. I HIGHLY RECOMEND THIS BOOK TO EVERYONE OUT THERE TO READ THIS! IT'S GREAT!
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Summary: This "victorian" Christian gal loved this timeless book !
Review: I got this book several years ago and have read it numerous times, along with Quest for Love - which is also great. I think all of us Christian gals want manly,chivalrous men - and guys want sweet, feminine ladies. Today's singles have moved way too far from what what the Bible teaches about relationships. We are becoming more like the world, and Elisabeth Elliot has the courage to speak against the norm. She is extremly smart, and tell it like it is -she makes no apoliges for her beliefs. I will always be grateful for her books and godly wisdom. Guys, this is not just a book for girls, you will gain alot from her guidance. Mark of a Man is also a wonderful book that Mrs. Elliot wrote to her nephew - I got it for my bro, but could not help reading it! To all of you wondering if you should get this book, take it from me, you will never understand how you understood got along with out it! -- jennifer faith <>< Romans 12:2
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Summary: sound wisdom from a no nonsense writer
Review: There are so many sources eager to throw their two cents in regarding dating. Elisabeth elliot is one of the few whose words, regarding this subject ,i would consider wise and worth taking seriously. the book points to the bible and offers the wisdom that comes from experiencd godly people. Elliot's wisdom is, at first, startlin. However when i analyze them i find that her beliefs of women's and men's roles with God and each other agree with biblical truth. her work does not degrade women- or men- it honors both by stressing the need to live in a way that honors both the way they ought to be.
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Summary: It changed my life!
Review: I have long been in search of a book affirming my choice of being single right now. Not only does this book address the issues of being single in a world that tells us we must always be in "relationships," but it also addresses God's will for our lives. It urges us to look at what the overall picture is. This book helped me to understand that when I am in a relationship, it should be a trinity. A trinity with God at the head and God's will also being the focus of the relationship. This book helped me examine my own faith and what it is that I feel God wants me to do and to be. I feel that it is a great encouragement to really communicate with God and seek His will. It was amazing.
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Summary: Idealistic at best...
Review: This book was sent to me nearly three years ago by (at the time) the love of my life. Granted, at 18 years of age the hormones are a little out of control, and my girlfriend and I both faced many convictions after reading this in its entirety; breaking up shortly thereafter. Naturally I could have some hostility towards this author, yet keep in mind I'm not penalizing the book by my rating because of that. With that said, three years of maturing later I cannot see this book being applicable to 99% of the general population, nor can I say this kind of idealistic relationship is attainable by the majority of Christian couples. If I remember correctly, Elisabeth frowned on signs of [what I believe is] healthy, nurturing affection such as kissing, dismissing it as lust. This book was written more like a fairytale; every woman's dream love-story laid out in a neatly packaged autobiography. Unfortunately, that's where this book falls short as her experience was totally unique to her and her partner and loses validity since it's not applicable to the majority. The Bible's principles will always stand the test of time, but don't be mouth-fed 100% by this author (or any other), as I feel any sensible person would realize she's off the mark on several areas, including the "passive" female role, and "active" male role. This mentality undermines womens' unique responsibilities in a relationship centered around Christ and seems somewhat degrading to the female gender as a whole. Men and women were created to complement one another; balance. Elliot left me with the impression women are discouraged to take any stand or find their voice as far as spiritual matters are concerned. But this is coming from someone (myself) who does not agree with the 'appointed male spiritual leader in a relationship' theory. I've discussed this book several times, and others have echoed my same sentiments regarding Elliot's views on relationships. As with any human-being, we derive our own interpretation of God's teachings from the Bible in a way that is unique and individual to ourselves, leaving for a margin of error since man is fallible. I'm sure Elliot had the best of intentions, but she projects, yet isolates and the average reader will find themselves unable to relate to this seemingly outdated material. She would've been more successful had she more focus on how to utilize yourselves as a God-driven couple to serve in a more effective manner, rather than stress on, and over-emphasize on the small pitfalls of impurity every relationship experiences. Verbose rambling aside, this book still leaves me with a shadow of regret of my past transgressions, rather than being an encouraging source of inspiration.
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Summary: A Must-Read!
Review: Whether you are a teenager seeking to answer the question of "Should I date?" or a single-again seeking to re-enter the world of dating, you need to read this book. It is an awe inspiring story of two college kids that made courtship, love, and God work hand in hand. It truly taught me that waiting on God may be difficult but it is truly worth it! I'm the type of person that loves to have control of everything so giving up control to God is difficult for me especially when it comes to my love life. But reading Elizabeth Elliot's book helped me realize that although it comes with a cost, it is well worth it. She makes you see that she and Jim were just like us, wanting love and marriage and well physical stuff. But they wanted God more. If you seek to make God first in your life (in all aspects of your life including your love life), you must read this book. Kudos to the author!
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Summary: Fantastic Romance
Review: This book tells the story of a great romance, the kind of romance most women want but aren't patient enough to find. Reading this book changed my life after my divorce and helped me see where my marriage had gone wrong (yes, during the dating phase!). It is a bit astringent, but it rebuilt my self-esteem and my trust in God. It gave me better priorities. There's nothing more embarrassing than to see women throwing themselves at men and chasing them. It makes you cringe. Sure ... P&P is a little old-fashioned, but readers who want to get their life right with God will find a lot of strength and hope here.
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Summary: Too old fashioned
Review: Don't waste your time or money on this one. The information in this book is too impractical, old fashioned and at times too offensive and gender baised to be applied in today's society. Better choices would be: True Love in a World of False Hope, The Ten Commandments of Dating, Knight in Shining Armor and What To Do Until Love Finds You. A Good Man is Hard To Find and A Jewel in His Crown are better choices for age 20+ female readers.
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Summary: I would have given it zero stars
Review: I was looking for books for pre-teenaged girls. I had never heard of Elisabeth Elliot before. If I had I wouldn't have wasted my money on this piece of garbage. I have since learned that her politics are beyond conservative. Supporting the ERA=supporting lesbianism?? Gimme a break! I am a Christian woman and found this book to be outdated and incredibly offensive to both women and men. I don't even know where to start... The ideas presented in this book are just too old fashioned to be applied to real life. Recommended for extreme conservatives and the brain dead ONLY. The girls got a good laugh, though!
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